Love- your worst enemy?

There comes a time in everyone's life when we start doubting if this life is really worth living. It is because we have loved. We have reasons to feel bad about ourselves. But is love really your worst enemy? Is heartache a good reason to start feeling worthless and give up on everything?

It is one thing to love a family member. Every person in your family is important and you have to love and care for them. A family has to stick together and always be there for each other. It is not difficult to love somebody related to you. It is quite natural. You can feel the connection between that person and yourself.

On the other hand, loving someone outside your family is something very different. It can be very painful and yet that pain may be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Most of us start out as just friends and love comes later. Others fall in love at first sight. It takes a lot of courage to become more than friends. What happens if this doesn't work out? It is not that easy to stay friends after a bad break-up.

There is one thing you must not be afraid of and that is heartache. Especially young people, who are inexperienced and easy to become attached. It is said that you should not fall in love and become too fond of someone when you are young. It think that is wrong. You cannot force your feelings and nobody is too young to love. Love does not have age limits.

The key to being successful in love is not being afraid of making mistakes and taking risks. You have to be fearless. There may come the time when you have to stay apart from your loved one for a long time but you cannot give in to temptations. You have to stay faithful no matter what. When you see the person who you love again, it will be amazing and it will feel right.

I do not think that love is your worst enemy. There are ups and downs in every relationship but you have to overlook them and see only the good things. It is perfectly normal to fall and get hurt but the important thing to remember is to get back up again and move on. Love is something to fight for.